The Ku

The Ku is the heart-body, our sensory awareness. In HSP's the Ku is very much activated and engaged. I use my extreme sensory awareness both in my digital 1:1 session and in those cases where people come to me in real life. This particular section focuses on the ways I help you and your Ku feel physically better.

Still, odds are that you're looking for online help, in which case this section is more of an FYI, 😊.

Trigger Point Therapy

On the Heart/Body Level (Ku) I'm a trained Trigger Point Therapist, and an Inca & Huna trained Shaman. My overly empathetic Self spent years picking up everyone else’s pain and, worse, owning it (but also finding solutions for it) before it occurred to me that it might not be my own pain I was carrying around.

Hands-on Massage Therapy

As a result I'm intimately familiar with the musculoskeletal system and 'pain' and I’ve had a practice in TPT for years.

I still offer this service on the side, so if you’re in the area (typically the Netherlands or the South of Spain), you’re more than welcome.

Online Massage Therapy

Since I’m so very sensitive and empathetic, I can also guide you to treat yourself with TPT and other healing techniques. It’s not something I typically book sessions for -mostly because I rarely talk about it- but know that if you’re working with me, exploring the physical tack -or simply addressing a given pain- is always an option.

Energy Healing

My Ku identifies as an Urban Shaman, trained in Huna Thinking, with Inca techniques; so I also offer Energy Healing Sessions. Once we have a bit of familiarity -and for this purpose a brief chat often suffices-, these sessions can also work quite well online, where you lie on your own bed or couch, your laptop or phone nearby, and I have you energetically on my massage table. I typically place my phone or laptop where your head would be, so that we can communicate directly.

It’s quite a profound experience. So if you feel completely stuck and you want to get the energy moving, and if you feel sufficiently aligned to me and my energy (so that you can surrender to the process), you’d be more than welcome to book an online Energy Healing.

Sovereign Empaths

One point of focus has always been the HSP-empath -- and helping both myself and others be autonomous in our energy.

It continues to be a challenge, and I continue to uncover new insights, which I share with whomever is in need of them. But I've long accepted it as a gift, because it's at the base of my relational genius: you and your needs draw forth my responses, which is how I can make every session revolve around you.

There really is no clear delineation between any of the aspects and the Ku is not just about the physical body, it is also very much about the emotional experience.

Relationship dynamics, even though they very much pertain to the sensory and emotional experience, are a beautiful topic for Lono to explore, because when we bring our conscious awareness into the relationship, everything changes.

In the Huna tradition a shaman is a healer of relationships, whether that's with your partner, your children or your boss. But the most important relationship in your life is the one you have with yourself.

Shadow beliefs, hidden convictions and unhealthy expectations can play havoc with your experience. My Lono identifies as an existential psychologist, but my three Selves work together intimately to make this grey area visible, so that your less constructive thoughts and beliefs can be improved upon - which will improve your entire experience.

This part of my work is probably the hardest to describe, yet it's what I spend most of my time doing for people: conversing, exploring, and, ultimately, giving you a new way to look at the situation; creating aha-moments, finding the wormhole. Once you can see the situation in a new light, your next steps automatically become clear.

Structured Support

Like I said, my Lono -my rational aspect- identifies as an existential psychologist. But I took my sweet time getting there, and in what feels like a previous lifetime, I studied Business Management, with Marketing and Finance as my major points of focus.

Having been born into retail through my parents, I initially began my own store in the South of Spain, and I eventually opened up my own practice and spiritual centre in the Netherlands, which I later moved online; so I've had first-hand experience with entrepreneurship my entire life.

I do not present as B2B, because from a meta-perspective it doesn't matter how you express your gift: as an entrepreneur; for a hobby; or because you simply can't not. What matters is that you connect with it so that expressing it becomes a natural next step.

But, of course, my vast entrepreneurial experience is also at your disposal, and I can help you every step of the way. But while it may not be the best use of our time to ask me technical stuff about your website, at least you can rest assured that, should it keep glitching, I'll also shine an energy light on just why that might be the case.

Adding Ease and Grace

Traditionally, Business Management was pretty much a lack-based approach, and since I identify as a spiritual being who aims to Walk her Talk, I am committed to exploring a path of Ease and Grace, both for myself and for the people I work with.

That commitment was, initially, challenging in more ways than one, because as an empath I felt sucked into the traditional world. For years my brilliant Lono had a very hard time believing my highly transcendent Kane when she said there was another way.

Clarity in concepts

My Lono, on an energetical level, knew that Kane's perspective made a lot of sense; but still, she very much needed to fully understand.

That’s been an interesting journey, to say the least.
But the result of that journey is that I can put into words concepts that most people never even thought about, in such a way that it can help you move forward.

Understanding Manifesting on whatever level you are

"If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough."
My Lono doesn’t give up until I can explain it, because things have to make sense to me on all three levels, not just one. Which is why I ended up writing the book on Manifesting for Triunes and am, in the background, working on my next book: The Energy Behind Manifesting. I've needed to unravel the process every step of the way -- which means I can now help you connect the dots on your manifesting endeavours.

One might think that Manifesting pertains to the Spiritual Aspect, Kane, but I see my clear-knowing as something that very much pertains to Lono, my conscious awareness -- fired up by Kane.

Interdimensional DreamWeaving

My Kane identifies as an Interdimensional DreamWeaver.  She’s the one that fires up my Ku and my Lono, so that we can  find the wormholes, create the aha-moments, and connect the dots.

Kane's Support

You will find that it's easy to do whatever you're inspired to do. It's your Kane that gives you that inspiration: when you really want something, she'll fire you up.
But a Triune can really want something and really want something else. And if one of those things is carried by your Lono and the other by your Ku, then Kane will support and inspire whichever aspect is currently most activated.

Both plans can be excellent, but if they're not carried by both aspects, it's going to be just a temporary endeavour. Whichever aspect is running the show will get fired up by your Kane, making it seem doable and perfect - until you slip out of that aspect and into the other one - which will then receive Kane's full support, making thát seem the only thing you could possibly be doing (or even want to be doing).

It's your challenge to find the spot where these two paths converge: your Sweet Spot of Coherence.

My personal Triune challenge has long been that I mistakenly believed that my Lono had to step back, and that she had to let Kane work her magic, which is what the spiritual community teaches.
That path would have made me Kahuna Kupua, a true Master in Energy Healing: living the Magic, and living in the moment, which is my Ku's inspired dream.

Your challenge might be to allow your spirituality to play a much greater role in your life, or to allow your sensitivity to guide your choices.

For me the challenge was understanding my Lono's needs. For years I believed that this aspect should step back - because that's what I'd been taught. But my Conscious Mind very much needed to fully understand just how DreamWeaving worked, and stepping back just wasn't an option.

And so she kept interrupting the Ku-Kane alliance with explorations and questions and quests and tangents. This would invariably pull us off track - even more so because she kept envisioning scenarios where I would be teaching these concepts, rather than just living them as a Shaman.

The Sweet Spot of Coherence

My life changed completely once I allowed my Lono free rein. Looking at my situation objectively, and understanding her need - and her unique ability to break things open - I decided to allow her to bring reason to everything Kane showed her.

To my amazed delight, the moment I stopped suppressing my brilliant mind, life became a lot easier. Instead of pushing away what had always seemed a disruptive element, admitting my Lono into the fold of my personality turned out to be the missing link towards becoming whom I'd always known myself to be.

As a result, my Lono now actively supports my Ku-Kane alliance, seeking my Kane's spiritual wisdom and guidance, but also allowing Kane the space to just sit and dream our life into being.

But Lono also made some compelling arguments as to why we should teach these materials, and my Ku quite naturally supports that desire, so now we pursue both paths simultaneously. And the further we go on these paths, the more we see they're actually one and the same.

Because of that new-found Coherence, I have stopped keeping things in the future: I now make it a point to actively step into the experiences I seek, making sure each aspect gets what she needs in such a way that it serves our combined objectives.

I've gone from always doubting which way to go, to simply going. And I'd love for you to have that same sense of clarity.